How to start over!

It has been quite some time since my last post.

first of all i would like to say Happy new year! 2020 is surely going to be a great year for most people. I personally am optimistic about this year and I am looking forward to great achievements in every area of my life. I Began 2019 with the same mood, which is great, but the truth is that I slacked a lot last year and it left me very weary and wondering how am going to start my new year.

In the last month of the past year I sat down and did a lot of thinking and planning. I needed to pick my self up and get ready to start over. I could not quit, it has never been an option. It should not be an option for you too.

You might still be hang over your past mistakes and and just how much you have failed. That alone can leave you hopeless. It is not too late to start over, it never is!

I am going to share with you a few steppes that will help you start over on any project or dream you have so as to accomplish your goals or vision. So here we go,

  1. Accept the past.  The first thing to do is to accept everything that has happened in the past. It is hard to start over in your life if you’re still holding onto the past. Whether be a relationship, job, family or other situation, you need to accept what has happened. Note that acceptance doesn’t necessarily mean forgiveness or understanding. It just means that you have realized something has happened, you acknowledged it, and you are ready to move on from it. You may feel pain and hurt when life isn’t going in the direction you wanted, but you don’t have to suffer. Suffering is a choice. Nothing last forever, including pain. So acknowledge it, experience it, and move on from it. Don’t center your life around the hurt and the failures; get out of that story and avoid the drama.
  2. Remember that things happen for a reason. the Bible says that “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28.  This is not to say that you are powerless and that things are just “fated” to be a certain way. Rather, nothing has meaning besides the meaning you assign to it. It’s up to you to make every event, incident, and moment in your life empowering or dis-empowering. The lessons you are to learn won’t be obvious; you instead have to discover what your life is telling you.
  3. Take stock of your failures and successes. You can’t “quit life”, so instead of getting down when things aren’t work out as planned, ask yourself, “What is or was working in my situation or circumstance?” Write it all down. Keep notes to yourself about your successes, even the small ones. Write every night about something that went well that day. Focusing on the positive helps attract more of it! This is working for me. Think about how you can promote what is or was working for you even more.
  4. Discover your purpose and set goals.  everyone has to have a goal or vision that drives them. living a life that had no vision is living aimlessly. Thinking about the meaning of your life is one of the first major steps toward making big changes. Discover what you are good at, what you enjoy doing, what are you passionate about. Discovering these is key to figuring out what will make you happy and give you a fulfilling life. Once you have determined your general purpose and big life goals, decide specifically how you will reach these goals and then make the needed changes. Set short term goals and long term goals then organize yourself and begin the work!
  5. Prepare for moments of weakness and do not be afraid to ask for help. At times you will feel like your new plan is not working and you will want to revert to your old life. Plan for these moments. if it takes you separating from certain people then do so. This might mean deleting the numbers of people you call or text when you’re down and need validation. When you feel like you have tried everything and there is no change, do not be afraid to reach out to someone and ask for help. You will not know everything, so there will be people who are experts in other areas where you lack. it it not a sign of weakness.
  6. Keep moving. Now with all the above steps you are sure to be in the right track. quit procrastinating and keep pressing towards the mark! it is good to reward yourself every time you accomplish the short term goal. This helps you to stay motivated.

See you at the end!


Love Amede

Published by Love Amede

I am a God-lover. My biggest dream is to be in a world that is ruled by Godly love. I strive daily to let the love of God in me shine and affect the people around me. I am a dedicated wife and mom of three. My second passion is to see successful marriages and families that are founded on the love of Christ. With a career in Finance and Banking, I have also developed a deep passion to see young people succeeds in their careers and businesses. I am committed to seeing young people adapt to the abrupt changes now happening in the world as long as developing independent successful businesses.

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